Where can Wicklow Couples Find Swinging Partners?

Date 2nd Aug 2013 | Views  3263

Once you and your partner have made the decision to try swinging for the first time, you might find that you run into trouble at the first hurdle, simply finding people you can swing with. Here's a few of our best tips, but as with all things, it's important to remember that this really isn't rocket science. The most important thing is to make sure that you seem friendly, approachable, pleasant and think of this simply as an opportunity to make new friends. Don't show up at parties with a slightly desperate 'looking for sex' air about you, as it puts any Wicklow swinger off . All you need to do is make friends, chat, hang out and see what happens.

Try Some Classifieds

A simple search online for 'Wicklow swingers' produces thousands of results. Obviously not all of them will be right for you, but with a little persistence you should be able to find something that catches your eye. Once you've spotted an ad you like, make sure you read it carefully as some people might have specific requirements. For instance, they could be searching for a couple with a specific gender balance, or wanting to get involved with other couples only and not looking for requests from singles. If you don't see anything that seems right for you, consider putting up an ad on one of these sites yourself, making sure you explain exactly what you're looking for. You will have to be prepared to turn down a few not quite right proposals, before you find your starting point.

Get Involved With Online Community

Forums and internet groups are the perfect way to virtually 'meet' other swingers in Wexford, and ask any questions you might have before taking the plunge. This is also an excellent avenue for finding out when and where your local events are. You're much more likely to have a good time if you get to know people a little first, so make an account of your own and participate in online discussions and comment threads. Joining in with the fun at the next club night will be far easier if people recognise you from the boards.

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Start With a Club Night

A lot of the most entertaining times in the Wicklow swinging community happen at private parties, but for obvious reasons those are usually only open to friends of the host's whom they have specifically invited. Seek out a local swinger's club and attend their next event with your partner. Even if nothing happens for you that first time, which it might not, it's still a great way to meet people and to get a better idea of what you might be able to expect in the future. Then, keep going! The more often you turn up, the more people you meet. Remember, the nicer you are to spend time with, the more likely it is that you'll make friends, find people to play with, and maybe even start getting the occasional party invite.

For more information, read our guide to Wicklow swingers clubs.