Date 24th Apr 2016 | Views 789
When people talk about swingers and swinging, they often think about couples swapping each other's partners in the bedroom, or joining a small group in a club where they would go into a private room to fuck. However, would it surprise you to think that when you're wife-swapping, it doesn't mean that you have to get involved in an orgy, or even a foursome? People often forget that swinging is simply a sex practice where both couples and singles would have sex with other people; I can't describe it in any other way.
Why do some men enjoy having MMF threesomes?
Every time I hang out with a bunch of my friends, both guys and girls, we always end up talking about something sexual; one of the reccurring topics that get brought to the table is the act of threesomes. All of the guys that would drink with me at the bar would immediately state that if they'd ever have a threesome, they could only have one if it would involve two girls, not a boy and a girl.
Obviously, most of the guys that I hang out with are heterosexual, so they would be turned off if they'd see another hard cock in the room. Either that or they fear they might get penetrated by surprise!
However, the same cannot always be said when couples want to swing with another single man. Many guys actually enjoy getting involved in a threesome with their wives and another guy.
For most men, it's not because they're interested to know what a cock would feel like inside their asshole or mouth, it's because they want to please their wives; they want to see them enjoy themselves which would make them horny too. You see, men are not as cold hearted as some women may think; they do care about their partner's happiness and sexual well-being!
How to get started
For those who are new to the swinging scene, arranging a sexy encounter isn't as hard as you may think. Nevertheless, one thing that I would advise you to do is that you always do everything with your partner.
If you're in a relationship, then swinging is something that can only be done when your partner is in the loop, otherwise, you'll lose your trust with each other if you don't tell your partner what or who you're going to do. Moving on! You have two options which you can choose from, depending on your preferences. If you're someone who likes to meet and know new people in a lively environment, then arranging an encounter at a swingers club would be a great place for you to meet a new guy while you feel relaxed at the same time.
You and your partner would be able to find a nice man who would be interested in getting to know both of you, have a couple of drinks to loosen up (don't have a lot of drinks, mind you!) and having the choice to go into one of the private rooms in the club or go back to your place where you'd feel more comfortable to fuck in. Alternatively, if you're someone who likes to meet new people in a closed space, then a good option for you would be to arrange the threesome meeting at your home, where you'd have a couple of alcoholic beverages of your own.
Time to get naughty!
Now, it's natural for people to get cold feet when having sex with two people, even if that person has had a lot of experience with threesomes. I say this because anything could happen during a threesome encounter; you'd never know what could occur to potentially fuck up the good atmosphere.
However, after getting to know your new sex partner as well as receiving a bit of Dutch courage from a couple of whiskey and cokes, it would be very unlikely that you would experience a mishap during the meeting.
When it comes to what kind of position you would like to perform, well, a lot of porn videos are able to educate you in that field, but the most common positions that three people like to do are spit roasts and sandwiches. That's because they are great poses that won't make anyone feel like a third wheel; everyone can get involved and get off at the same time.
Once you've finished your great sexcapade, the best way to avoid having any kind of awkwardness lingering in the room is to have another drink and another laugh. Afterall, sex is meant to be enjoyable as well as erotic!
Relax and enjoy the ride!
There's nothing else that I could say at this point. Many swingers that have been swapping partners for a long time know how to make an MMF threesome fun and fantastic. If you're new to the scene, then the only thing you need to do is relax and enjoy the ride; enjoy your wife riding on top of you while she's gets double penetrated by the other swinging partner behind her!
