Leitrim Swingers: Know Your Swinging Style

Date 29th Jul 2013 | Views  1557

There are as many kinds of swinging as there are swingers, and Leitrim's swinging scene seems to have examples of them all. The county is full of events and private parties at which you will meet people who practice all these different types of swinging, so before you take the plunge, you might want to have a think about what yours will be. It's okay to try everything, and it's also okay to only really be interested in one particular way of doing things you just need to make your own mind up and choose what's best for you and your partner.

The Unicorn

Single young women interested in having threesomes with established older couples are sometimes jokingly referred to as 'unicorns' lots of people would love to meet one, but they're incredibly elusive and rarely seen! This does happen, though, and a threesome with someone of any gender can be a brilliant introduction to non monogamy for couples interested in trying it, who have yet to take the plunge. Try looking up Leitrim's swinger communities online and see if you can find anyone who might be interested.

The Partner Swap

Perhaps the most common type of swinging in practice, the basic idea here is that two couples arrange to meet and then 'swap' partners for the night, perhaps going off separately to enjoy each other's company. This is a good way to start because it's so equitable and non-threatening, and Leitrim has various places where you can find and meet a couple to swap with. Look some of them up and advertise, and you're sure to find someone who will be interested.

The Double Date

While superficially fairly similar to partner-swapping, the idea behind the double date is that it's more like a foursome with both couples in the same place, exploring each other's bodies and sexualities as a group. Even for people who are straight this can be fascinating and fulfilling, as it gives you a unique opportunity to learn more about your sexuality, your partner's sexuality, and the sexualities of other people. It's sort of one step on from the basic 'partner swap' style of swinging, and if you're interested in it as an idea it can be a lot of fun. This is very popular for the swingers in Leitrim, as well as other swinging communities.

The Party Swing

If you attend one of the various swinging parties, club nights or other swinging events held in or around Leitrim, you might find that some rooms or parts of the venue turn into what is effectively an orgy, a large group of people all swinging at once, exploring each other's bodies and sexualities together with playful desire. This might not be the best way to get an introduction to swinging, but if you're sure you're ready or you've been around for a while it's a brilliant experience. All you really need to do is relax and let it happen, and you're sure to have a brilliant time, just so long as you don't let anyone pressure you into joining in with something you're uncomfortable with, of course.