Should I Start Swinging With Friends?

Date 31st Jul 2015 | Views  921

I got a very interesting question from one of the new swingers on our site last week. Actually, I will clarify, I'm not sure he had done any swinging yet, but he had certainly gone as far as registering on our set, which is definitely a good thing.

Now his question revolved around whether you should start swinging with friends, or whether doing the deed with perfect strangers is better. It seems that he had had a tacid offer from one of his work colleagues and didn't know if it was a good idea or not.

Well that is quite a complicated one. Me and my wife have a few couples who we enjoy, and one of them were friends before we began. It was a bit of a risk, but it worked for us.

The problem you will have is if it all goes wrong. Swinging is hardly an exact science. Say there are four people involved; it only takes one of them to get upset by the situation and you have a rather ruined friendship. Now if it is the kind of friendship that you are willing to risk, that is up to you, but it really does need careful consideration.

Now there comes the issue with them being work colleagues. A lot will depend on where you work as to whether it is a good idea or not. Let's be real about this; some people have a big mouth and after a few beers, they like to talk. You should always be aware that what you think is confidential may not be in the end. Couple this with a negative public perception of singers, and swinging in general, and you could have problems.

A Lot of that will depend on where you work. At the risk of over-simplifying, if you work in a strip club, no-one will care. If you work in the Vatican, then that may be frowned upon, believe it or not. Now those are two extreme examples, but you get the jist.

Now, as I said, a have two friends from my pre-swinging days who we swing with. However, I will admit, if I knew then what I knew now, I'm not sure I would have made the same choice, despite it being so successful.

At the risk of sounding like I'm sitting on the fence, in the end, it is your personal choice. You have to be aware of the dangers, but only you will know your own personal circumstances.

Be careful, and if you are in any difficulty coming to the decision, I would side on err on the side of caution and meet your swinging friends from us here at!