Should I Start Swinging With Work Colleagues?

Date 25th Nov 2016 | Views  428

Every few weeks I get a message from one of our swinging community asking an interesting question. Every time I get one, I always like to reply back as quickly as possible. This week I got one from a male swinger who, as always, will remain anonymous.

Here was the email.

Interesting Question and My Answer

Hi mate.

Me and my partner are relatively new swingers and low and behold, we have discovered that another couple in the office we both work in are part of this lifestyle also. The question I have is, should we use this a perfect opportunity to swing with this other couple, or should work and pleasure not mix? Simple question, and sorry if it wastes your time.

All the best, *******

Here is what I replied to the fellow.


Don't worry, you are never wasting my time.

This may sound a simple question, but actually, it is complicated. The best way to look at it is through a risk/reward analysis. The reward is that you may well have fantastic sex with this other couple. If there is a better kind of reward, I don't know it!

However, you need to know that if it goes wrong, and you fall out, things could get bitter. This is like any workplace relationship, and why many people steer clear of them.

Also, we all know that workplaces are like gossip factories. It won't take long for people to start talking. Now personally, I don't give a fuck, let them talk. You may be different, I don't know.

In the end, you have to go with your gut. There is no right or wrong answer. Discuss what I have said with your partner and come to a mutual decision. I hope you make the right one, for you.


Well, there you go. We hope that helped some of you out there also. If you have any other question, please let me know and I will do my best to answer them.