Date 13th Oct 2017 | Views 71
If you are a single man, then going to a swingers club can be quite stressful. You have no idea if you are going to get any action, and you may well be concerned that you are going to look sleazy. This will lead to many just standing there and not engaging with those around them.
So how should a single man act when he goes to a swingers club> Well, here are five tips for any man in that position. We imagine they will come in very useful.
1) Dress To Impress
When we dress well, we become more confident. We make eye contact more, and generally just feel better. These are all important things if you are going to a swinging club on your own.
It doesn't matter what your favourite style is, whether it be a suit and tie, or a nice Ben Sherman shirt. Just look the part, respect yourself, and get noticed.
2) Take Care of Your Body
Lets face it, no-one is there to get to know you too well. This is about sex, and like it or not, the better you look, the more luck you will have getting company. This is why it is a good idea to make sure you are in good nick.
Now I am not saying you need to look like Terry Crews, but if your gut is hanging over your belt, then you won't make the great first impression that you want to do. Therefore go for a run for a few times a week, visit the gym, eat a balanced diet. This will really help you catch the eyes of fellow swingers.
3) Be Confident
This is about striking the balance. Yes you want to be confident, but don't walk in there strutting like Vince McMahon or everyone will think you are an asshole.
Remember, you are a great guy with many great qualities. People are as lucky to meet you as you are them, so enjoy yourself, and don't be a shrinking violet. Have a good conversation, even have an idea what you are going to say about yourself.
This will really help you make an impression.
4) Be Respectful in the Playrooms When You Observe
When you are in the playrooms, you are there to watch, and what everyone hates in this scenario is someone who is too aggressive. Therefore you need to not touch the couples who are playing without invitation.
It is also an idea not to hover around too closely. Give them space to enjoy themselves. For many not doing that will put them off, so show some respect. Everyone will love you for it!
5) Be Prepared When Participating in the Playrooms
If you want to have sex with another single or a couple in the playrooms, remember to come prepared with condoms and lube. Also remember to keep alcohol to a minimum so your performance isn't affected.
Be respectful to the people or the person you are with. You may look good but you are unlikely to have a good experience or be asked back in the future if you don't come across as a pleasant individual.
So there we go. You may not be always guaranteed to get action as it is a swingers club and not a brothel, but if you look your best and behave your best, then you will certainly increase your chances of a good experience.
That is all any of us want.
