Visiting an Irish Swingers Club

Date 30th May 2013 | Views  7347

Visiting an Irish Swingers Club

If you are planning on visiting a swingers club then there are a number of rules that you will need to be aware of. If you are new to the scene, then trying to figure out what club you should be going to is rather tricky.

Themed nights
Try and look out for themed nights. As a 'newbie swinger', you don't want to end up going to a club night unprepared for what is going on in there. Make sure you go on a night you are comfortable with, and understand what to expect when you are there.

There are a lot of different rules that you will need to make sure you understand before you enter any of these Irish swinging clubs. Be warned, these swinging clubs are very strict with people who cannot or will not follow the rules. So be aware; do your research.

Location is very important for many Irish swingers. Some don't mind going to swinging clubs near home. Many however, like to go to swinging clubs away from their own town or city. This will prevent them from accidently bumping into people they know.

Handling New Swingers

You may not be the new Irish swinger, but an experienced swinger who is about to introduce new swingers into the group. This in in itself can be a strange experience for you.

Be Patient
Remember to be patient with any new swingers. Just remember, they are new and may not want to jump into swinging straight away and could require a little nurturing and a nudge in the right direction. Don't rush them.

Be Respectful
Always be mindful to respect their feelings and wishes. A new swinger may be very nervous. If they are not ready, give them a bit of space. A bad experience could well mean that they do not wish to return.

Remember Your First Time
Remember, you were new once. Remember that you were nervous and they are likely scared too. If you do this, you are likely to make it much easier for any new swingers.

There are plenty of new and experienced swingers on our forums so feel free to ask our friendly community for help and advice.